The medicine of old friends

Life is more meaningful when shared with true friends.

For at least three decades we have had the joy and privilege of connecting with several mutual friends. Life is busy so it was great to plan a catch up tonight with these trusted companions.

Like the characters on the yellow brick road, we have journeyed life together.

Sharing together tonight made me realise that not one of us is immune from the challenges and obstacles that life throws into the mix of our everyday relationships. At some point, at some time, we have all been in need.

Whether sharing the challenges of children and grandkids, or caring for aging parents, we all felt in a safe place to share both our joys and our woes. Even debilitating issues like sleep apnea were addressed (aledgedly I snore)! Sharing vulnerabilities amongst these trusted friends was better than many a therapy session. The words of Lord Baron ring true "Always laugh when you can. It is cheap medicine."

In the Wizard of Oz, Dorothy had companions to dance with as she headed for the Emerald City. But her companions all had needs. The Scarecrow was in need of a brain, the Tin Man was in need of a heart and the Cowardly Lion was in need of courage. 

No matter what your need is, try to find a friend to dance with on the path of life. "Listening is often the only thing needed to help someone."

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